Fun Survey: The Slut-o-Meter
Haha! Celebrate affection and pleasure with this lovely little survey. (And bravo to Anaïs Dream for putting it together!)
Category: Insights
Feminist Outlaw in Amazing Places
Once upon an NYC yacht party, my lovely partner and I were congratulated by a friendly new face. She said that we had wonderful energy, and it was a lovely…
Important PSA From The Wet Spots
Sometimes important issues are best assessed and heeded when put to song, and this piercing reminder from The Wet Spots bravely brings something to the fore that all to often…
Noho Rope Group Resurrected!
It was a delight to get the Noho Rope Group together at The Kink Studio last night — with great thanks to swanwithsass — and tremendous fun to see everyone…
Get a Great Book on Rope and Cheer On Great People!
Wahoo! Some wonderful friends and figures in the scene are collaborating in an amazing way: the creation of a luscious and approachable guide to rope bondage. Entitled “More Shibari You…
Orgy Amusements
Okay, naturally sex is supposed to be super serious at all times. Right? I don’t know if you’ve ever met a playful kinkster out there, but if you find some…
Openness and Meaning
Though it may seem like Anaïs Dream’s recent musings on the nature of travel aren’t inherently kinky, I find relevance in a very acute way. The heightened significance granted to…
The Red Room
Welcome to The Red Room. It is a realization of an imagination, a magic station where realizations lead us to wild distractions that eradicate self condemnation. There are many doors…
Induce Orgasms Through Erotica
“Every single one of you can make people come using just your words.” Naturally you’ve probably gotten a wee bit aroused by reading some of the fine tales on the…
Weather to Orgasm
I just noticed a little something in a friend’s profile that described her particular love of orgasm control, and it gave me an idea. Here’s what I shared with her.…